Last week I talked about manifesting money.  The same principles apply to manifesting your Prince Charming or your Cinderella. People have energy vibration just like things, and we can attract that energy by sending out our loving positive thoughts towards that person.  Of course, no matter how loving you send out your positive thoughts to Tom Cruise, it doesn’t mean you’ll end up with him.  We’re all free agents and can pick and choose whom we want to be with, but sending out that positive energy has influence. 

Another extremely important issue is that all of us want to be around people who see us they way we want to be seen.  This includes our relationship with our children.  If we see our child as the trouble maker always wasting his or her life and never doing anything right, we will continue to see more of that behavior.  Plus the child will try to withdraw from us because most people don’t enjoy being seen in that light.  If instead we see our child as bright, kind, clever, and excelling in some things, we will start seeing more of that behavior.  The child will also be much more likely to open up and share their thoughts and life with us.  We are not powerless to circumstance.  We can choose how we interact with someone else by how we choose to see them.  We can’t control how they choose to respond, but we can have influence. 

Whether you’re interacting with your boss, your husband of 30 years, a friend, a child, or an employee, if you want the relationship to change, it starts with changing your own perspective.  It starts with seeing that person differently.  Even though we can’t control others, we have far more influence on the entire world around us just by how we see things than is imaginable. 

The challenge for this week if you choose to accept it is to try to change something in one of your relationships that could use some improvement by sending out love and changing your own perception.  See what happens. As always, feel free to share with the rest of us on the Share Your Story page